At Ronald Johnston Law, we understand how important your children are to you. We also know that watching them move back and fourth between your house and your ex’s can be an adjustment.
Many parents during this time try to develop a way to stay in contact with their children while they are not at home; some use text, phone calls, email, FaceTime, or Skype. All of these ways are acceptable forms of contact, and this communication can be extremely beneficial, but it is important not to over-do it. While routine is great, make sure not to turn it into an obligation or mandate, which might make your child resent it. This will defeat the purpose.
It is also a good idea to consider your co-parent in this situation, along with their time with your child. Would you want them calling your child every hour when they are at your house? Chances are, you probably would take offense to them monopolizing your time with the kids.
Communication is one of the many grey areas in divorce, and it can be hard to find an agreement that works well for everyone. Click here to contact a family attorney in Portland OR for help with your custody agreement or divorce today.