Of course, most people know that in most cases divorce is not a pleasant experience. There are many difficult things that people will have to face when they choose to get a divorce. However, even though divorce is tough you still have the ability to decide what kind of attitude you will have throughout the process. That doesn’t mean it will be easy, but you can make the process better by choosing to stay positive and most importantly choosing to stay in control.
You can’t control the decisions that your spouse makes. Likewise, you can’t control how his or her attorney acts. You can, however, control what you do and how you respond to your spouse’s choices. You will assuredly be experiencing many different emotions and feelings during this time. Being able to understand and control those feelings and emotions is very important.
By keeping a positive attitude and keeping your emotions in check you can have more control over the outcome, even if it doesn’t go the way you want. It will also more likely be easier for you to move on when the settlement is finalized.
At Ronald Johnston Family Law our divorce lawyers in Portland Oregon understand the divorce process and how to help you get through it. Just like we recommend for you, we always try to keep a positive focus as we work to help you in every way we can. If you need help with your divorce, then contact us today. Click here to learn more about the effects of your attitude on divorce.