Enforcing New Rules

April 17th, 2015

Once the decisions are made about which old rules can be left in place and the new ones have been created, it is important to realize that there may be some resistance. Even when there are clearly established rules put forward, children may have a tough time remembering, following, and adjusting to them. It is common that following the divorce adults may think that children should remember something after only being told once or twice, but these expectations are unrealistic. There will be some times where new rules are forgotten or overlooked, which can make the structure difficult. Sometimes parents may even forget the new rules. For this reason, parents must continue to reinforce rules in a positive but stern manner.

The bottom line is that parents should be patient when enforcing the new rules. Even when the rules have been in place for awhile, it is likely your children will test the limits time and time again. This is especially true if the new rules are tighter than before the divorce, because children may feel that the new rules are unfair.   Children may even break the new rules as a way of displaying their anger and frustration about the divorce itself. It is also common for children to test their parents to see if the rules are simply suggestions.

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